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So now, all the tribes if Israel came to David and recognized he had been the one who had brought them victory when Saul was in command.

They called themselves his bone and flesh.

This time, his third anointing, he was anointed in public and made a covenant with them all.

He was 30 years old and reigned 40 years. (33 over all Israel and 7 and 1/2 over Judah.)

Then David took over Jerusalem from the Jebusites and made his capital there. God prospered him there. He had many more concubines and kids.

The Philistines decided to join together and take on David. David inquired of God and God promised victory-even giving him the correct strategy for each battle.

So Ish-bosheth heard about Abner and lost his courage. So, it seems like Ish-bosheth even had courage when Abner betrayed him...but Israel was affected by it as well.

Dear Lord...Saul's son's men (I think) murdered Ish-bosheth, cut off his head and carried it to David allegiance as proof of their to him now?

David pointed out to them that he had slayed the man who brought news of Saul's death, insinuating himself into the story. How much worse was it to murder a man in his bed and desecrate his body for personal gain. Plus, David refers to him as righteous. He may have been a feckless follower of Abner, but he did have a pop-culture claim to the throne.

So David have them dismembered and slaughtered.

II Samuel 4- Wiersbe

So the civil a=war between Abner/Ish-bosheth and David continued with David growing stronger and Abner growing weaker.

David's wives started having babies. (6 babies by six women, I think,)

Abner has sex with Saul's concubine and Saul's son accused him of doing it to claim the throne. Abner did not like that accusation.

Abner decides to covenant with David now and David agrees if he can have his first wife back. This happens (woefully) and then David and Abner come to terms.

But Joab, David's commander murders Abner in the meantime, because of what Abner did to Joab's brother.

David did not take it well. Hebron was a city of refuge and even a blood avenger could slay without a trial there (Ryrie), so even though Joab felt justified, David did not. He severely cursed him and his whole family- even though it was his nephew. David pointed out that Abner was a prince of the first anointed king from God. (Saul's relative.)

II Samuel 3-Wiersbe

Once again, David began the next season of his life by consulting the Lord. What do I do, where do I go? God sent him to Hebron, in Judah, and they anointed him their king (of Judah) (second anointing).

Saul had one remaining son, Ish-bosheth ("man of shame")

Abner, commander of Saul's Army had Ish-bosheth anointed kin of all of Israel. Ish-bosheth was king for 2 years, except over Judah, who followed David.

Under Abner's lead, Israel and David met and had a champion contest where multiple men from each team fought for the victory of the whole side in battle. David's men completely dominated and slaughtered Ish-bosheth's men. Then a battle and pursuit commenced that I didn't total understand. Hoping Weirsbe has some insight and why the people did and said what they did.

Oh, y Ryrie bible says that all 24 of the champion warriors killed each other. All sides lost completely. I don't do so well with chase scenes and battles. 🙂

II Samuel 2- Wiersbe

Abner was also Saul's cousin. So he probably was even more convinced of his right to inherit from Saul's post-reign. Less inclined to bow to David, who he had chased for years.

So Abner decided to fight for Ish-bosheth over David.

Joab was David's commander and David's nephew.

David was King of Judah (Hebron) for 7 and a half years.

Somehow, Ish-bosheth only reigned two years, which coincided with the end of David's 7 and a half year reign. Ryrie and Weirsbe explanation is that it took five years for Abner to round up every tribe but Judah to sign on to the new king.

Once Abner had the other tribes signed on to Ish-bosheth's reign, he declared war on David and called for the champions battle to settle the civil war. Once all 24 killed each other, Joab and Abner organized their battle formations and Joab/David won.

One of David's other nephews pursued Abner. Abner tried to warn him off and then killed him. The other two nephews of David gave chase; but Abner escaped and called a truce.

II Samuel 1 Intro

David was a shepherd at heart. He didn't force himself on the people, but shepherded them.

David was in exile for 10 years, running for his life...there's single incidents from a decade ago I'm still holding onto. that's amazing. He broke into a sad song when he heard of Saul's death and never mentioned all of the horrible things that Saul did.

That didn't happen because of who David was, but because of who God is. When you're walking in the Spirit of God, nothing else matters. You see people as His, and offenses don't carry a sting.

There are three accounts of Saul's death and they differ. The author of I Saul's account, the messenger's, and apparently one coming in I Chronicles. Logic dictates that the messenger was lying. Especially since Samuel was originally one book, so one author. These are the "contradictions" that skeptics use, but to me this makes it real. These contradictions could have been smoothed over somewhere in history. But they are still there for us to wrestle with.

AT the end of it, the messenger probably thought he was bringing good news and when he saw everyone grieving, he worked up a story he thought would gain him a reward.

The word "fallen" is found six times in this chapter. The man bigger than all around him in his youth, fell and died in shame.

Ryrie Study Bible Intro

Author= Samuel and others (same as noted for I Samuel)

Date = 930 BC and later (Same as noted for I Samuel)

Note= I and II Samuel are one book in the Hebrew Bible. I poked around on the internet to try to figure out why the book was broken into two and basically can find a history of it.

"When the Hebrew Scriptures were translated into Greek the Alexandrian Jews brought the books of Samuel and Kings together as the books of “kingdoms” and then subdivided the collection into four books of “kingdoms.”" (Bible.org)

Then other groups broke up the four book into a 1 and 2 of each. But the key take-away being that it was one book- so although Samuel could not have written past Ch 25 of I Samuel, the contents were created or arranged as one history. So II Samuel is a direct extension.

Contents= Samuel and Saul are dead. Now David returns and takes his place (given by God, not man) on the throne of Israel.

Wiersbe Intro

  • Not only is God a God of creation, but also restoration. While we do sometimes see Him "spit out" a person or a whole civilization, it's only after extreme patience and a zillion second chances. He wants to restore each of us and all of us.
  • Forgiveness is conditioned on evil in the sin and recognizing the confession. (sorry is not enough) then asking for God's cleansing and acknowledging that there might still be consequences.
  • A major theme is restoration: after a long ridiculous season of things falling apart (since the death of Joshua, when they were supposed to look to God as their leader), God begins putting things back together, first the nation, then David needs help restoring his throne again after he brings sin into his rule.

II Samuel 1

So David is back in Ziklag for three days when an Amalekite man shows up from the Israel/Philistine battle. He informs David that Saul and Jonathan are dead, but tells a different version of events than in I Samuel of Saul's death.He has the king's crown and bracelet.

David and the others tore their clothes and mourned. Then David had a man kill the Amalekite for killing the Lord's anointed. (Looks like the guy guessed incorrectly about the lie to tell. He got a reward, but not the one he expected.)

David is so grieved he wrote a chant and had all of Israel remember it. He speaks poetically of both Saul and Jonathan and leaves out all the really big bad bits about Saul.

Chapter 30

So David had become a Philistine vassal and, although still supported Israel through duplicitous means, he was now in corner and was headed to war with Israel. God saved him by having the Philistine commanders boot him back to his home base.

When he arrived the entire city had been carried off, including everyone's wives and children-including David's two wives. Everyone mourned and many wanted to stone David for this turn of events.

David finally did the right thing for once since joining the Philistines, and sought God's will. God said, "Pursue and you will save them all."

So they pursued and found a young Amalekite (Egyptian) wo told them where his people had gone. They slaughtered the Amalekites and got back everything that had been taken, large and small. Some men had become exhausted on the way to the battle and stayed behind. Some of those who went to battle wanted to keep the spoils from those who stopped on the way. David made a rule that everyone got an equal share, even if they only stayed with the baggage. Which became long-standing law.

Then David went back to the burned out homebase city the Amaleks destroyed, Ziklag. From there he sent spolis to all of the cities in Judah and Israel where he used to roam.

Chapter 31

It did not end well for Saul. The Philistines beat them in battle and caused them to flee. Then the Philistines killed all of Saul's sons. Then their archers pierced him on Mount Gilboa. He wanted his armor bearer to kill him to prevent torture, but his armor bearer was too afraid, so Saul fell on his sword. Then the armor bearer fell on his own sword. The Philistines then found his body, cut off his head and sent to around like the Stanley Cup trophy, captured his weapons, and posted his body on a wall. All and all a very bad ending for Israel's first King.

I had always thought that Saul fell on his sword for a noble reason. I thought that's where the phase came from. That's not true. He did it for a practical reason, but still about himself and not his people or a greater cause. There is no reference that he cried out to God. He tried to enlist him armor bearer and then he took matters into his own hands. I wonder what God would have done if Saul had ever been able to repent and seek the Lord for who He is.

The men of Jabesh-gilead stepped in and took the bodies of Saul and his men from the wall and burned, buried, and fasted in grief over them. This was because Saul had spared them. I see this as God making sure the King of His people did not end in final humiliation.

Chapter 30 Wiersbe Commentary

Note: I generally read a chapter and take my own notes, digging into anything that caught my attention; and then I read and take notes on anything interesting from the Wiresbe Be series of commentaries, or any other outside resources.

Wiersbe theorizes that God allowed the Amalekites to kidnap the families, take the booty, and burn the city as a message to David to get his butt home. The people and booty were recovered, which is a major miracle; but the city was burned. "You can't stay here."

Wiersbe also points out that the cities where David send portions of his booty were cities who had helped to hide his when Saul sought him. As well as to reconnect after being away.

Chapter 31 Wiersbe Commentary

Wiresbe frequently says that I Samuel is a book about man's king and it does not end well; while II Samuel is a book about God's King.

Wiersbe points out that Saul lost his crown in the worst way. We have been given a crown as well and have choices about how to use that crown. Chasing imagined enemies all over our "kingdom" or seeking God's will and destroying His enemies?

My response

Dear, Heavenly Father,

Both of these men sinned, going their own way and taking the other lives around them with them away from You. Both of them let their emotions and circumstances get the best of them. However, when Saul finally reached out for you, you were silent; until you let Samuel speak from the grave. And when David reached for the ephod in grief, you were there with an answer.

I know I fail you. I know I sin and seek my own way. And I know I try and get you to do what I want. I am so sorry. It looks so bad when I see it in others; but I want to excuse myself. But there is no excuse for self. Only destruction. Saul shows that so clearly. David genuinely wanted to do what you wanted. He didn't even assume that he should try and rescue his wives without first consulting you. I get the impression he knew he had blown it and didn't want to compound the sin by seeking his own way, even when it was as simple as, can I go get my family back.

Please, Lord, when I slip away, or run away, please bring me back to a desire for Your will and not my own.

I never want to lose you or to be spit out. I know that you love me and will make a way for me as a good, good Father. I love you and long to walk in Your will. Amen

I Samuel Closing Thoughts Wiersbe Commentary

Wiersbe goes back to the beginning of the season to track the story.

  • Joshua's death
  • division and selfishness (Doing right in one's own eyes)
  • Spiritual bonds of the people weaken
  • Sin increases
  • Judges aren't enough- they now want a king to unify them and help them win military battles (even though they had both under God)
  • They get their last judge: Samuel born to Hannah, a Godly woman
  • Samuel was born a priest; but would have to act as prophet and judge to this generation

January 8, 2020

Writers write. And I've wanted to be a writer. Until I realized that I was a writer...in my job. It's often more technical writing than I would have imagined; but I also, often, get a chance it write really great curriculum as part of my product development team at work.

And I journal, filling many notebooks for daily quiet time, church serves, and other events. For awhile now, my daily quiet time entries have grown longer and longer and with more of my own paraphrase and commentary. I figured it was time to transition to turning that journal into this blog- where I really want to do my writing.

So starting today, we dive back into Paloma Inc. (Thank you, Patrick!) And, of course, Thank God!!

Back in the saddle!

I lost my dear friend, Debbie Parker, this week.

I honestly still cannot comprehend how someone so vibrant, energetic, strong, competent, and positive could be gone so fast. I used to tease her that I was afraid of her because she was just a force of nature. She entered a room like a strong wind and things got taken care of very quickly and efficiently when she was on the task.

But the truth is, there isn’t anyone with as big of a heart as she. She loved and was loved by everyone around her. She was so easy to talk to about absolutely anything and everything. When we disagreed, it was honest, but polite and respectful—something many have lost the art of. Her desk was right outside of mine for years and I cannot count the number of us that she took under her wing—mentoring, coaching, and just listening. And she fed us. Dear Lord, that woman could cook. Entire Thanksgiving dinners, St. Patrick’s Day feasts, and yummy desserts.

But what she gave me, that no one else ever has, is a hope about aging. Many wonderful people I know have found ways to age gracefully and to find the best in it. But Debbie taught me it can be embraced. She found things in her life now that were markedly better and she encouraged me that new seasons would have improvements, as well as detractions.

This new season without her is going to hurt. But I’ll take the pain for all that I have gained as her friend.

My sincerest condolences to her daughter, Kait, and son, Drue. And to her sweet fluffy furbaby, Mia.

May God Bless her and keep her.

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